A little about my journey
Nice to Meet You!
We all have a story; I've learned a lot of lessons along the way in mine!
I grew up in a small town in Iowa, much like many teenagers, I made some colorful choices. It wasn't until many years, and continued colorful choices later, did I learn to love myself. I've never believed that I deserved the happiness I saw in others. Some of my choices had me believing I was worthless, underserving I was unlovable. I still struggle with imposter syndrome, but not nearly as bad.
For years I had this little voice in my head, I named her Sharron. A friend said to me, "if that voice was a physical person, would you let her talk to you like that?" Hell no! So, naming her gave me way to tell that voice to"fuck off!" Sharron is not kind, she's like an abusive asshole whom I unfortunately believed for far too long. Sharron came from the old beliefs I formed from abusive partners, teachers, doctors, churches.....and yes even some of my closest "friends" and family.
Sharron is quiet these days. Sometimes she tries to make herself heard, but I now have the tools to quiet her, and its fucking incredible!
I am a survivor of depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, physical, mental, emotional abuse.
I AM A SURVIVOR
I am always learning, not only for my own mindset, but for you! After twenty-six years in the hair industry, I was happy to have an associate degree in psychology already under my belt. I had a private suite, and a lot of very serious conversations happened in my suite. That's why I'm here today, focusing on my passion! I want to be able to give you the tools you need to thrive every single day and get through those days that maybe aren't so great. We all have them and remember....It's OK to not be OK, just don't get stuck there!!
CERTIFICATIONS
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Usui Reiki Master
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Karuna Ki Reiki Master
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NLP Life Coach, specializing in mental awareness
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Ho'ponopono (in progress)
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Meditation Practitioner
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Intuitive coaching with oracle cards
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Currently enrolled in a year long life coaching and communications program
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Being vulnerable is a strength, not a weakness.
-Selena Gomez
My Mission
When I discovered Reiki, I honestly had no idea what this was. Little did I know, it would change my world!
I went in with an open mind, I knew I needed help with where my mind was. I was looking for a way to heal my tired soul. I already had tried therapy; the antidepressants don't work well with my anatomy. So, what was there to lose!? (There are many great therapy programs out there.... they just didn't work for me). I was tired of being told a textbook answer, I wanted to talk to someone who had been through some of life's bullshit and came out the other end!! This is what started me on my life coaching journey. I went through the bullshit, and I did come out on the other side! It took a lot of hard self-work and CONTINUED self-care, but I'm doing it! I'm the happiest I've ever been, I'm in a beautiful, healthy relationship with a wonderful man, and we are living our dreams every day!
I've found that life coaching and reiki work well together! Don't get me wrong, I don't pretend to have my shit together every day; BUT I also don't think about wanting to end things every time life gets hard, I don't spiral every time there is a challenge. I've learned a different mindset. And Holy shit... I WANT THIS FOR YOU TOO!!!
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To be clear, I am not a licensed therapist. If we together feel you would benefit from a more advanced therapy, I will be happy to help you find some resources!
What's with the name
One day during a reiki session, the name Divine as F*ck came to me." I can't use the F word," I thought. I will offend too many people. But then as I thought about it, I liked it more and more. We are Divine AF! I want people to know I'm real and I, more than likely, will swear. I've lived a lot of life in my 50 years so far, colorful language helps with the bullshit of life! So go ahead and let that shit go! It's time to say 'F' that shit, time to live the life you deserve!
